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Hello Everyone!
We are so excited about this weekend! We are going to be welcoming Logan home! After more then a year and a half of being seperated, Deqlan and Logan will finally be able to play together again !! What an amazing sister you have been Logan - at your tender age, of then 5, to understand that to protect her brother from illness, she needed to stay away from him for so very long - the heartache in her eyes when she could only wave to him through the window, was a moment i will never ever forget! Will my gogga - God has given us the gift of Deqlans health and all is going to go back to normal - what a beautiful Birthday you are going to have on Sunday and what a wonderful Christmas we are going to have together, all together, celebrating what Our Lord has done for us.
We have also just heard that Logans report was wonderful , 4 a's, 2 c's and the rest b's - well done Logan - what a fantastic achievement, congratulations, you are firmly on your way to grade 2 - but enough about school for now, hey - we will think about that again in the New Year!
Granny Rene will drop Logs off later this afternoon! I CANT WAIT - is an understatement! Then tommorow we are going to go shopping for a few Birthday goodies for her little family celebration on Sunday - then in the afternoon i will take Logs and Deqlan to Hannahs 2nd Birthday Nemo Party - very excited - but its also going to be a learning curve for me to have a VERY active 2 year old and a very bubbly bouncy almost 7 year old, together, at the same time, all by myself - should be interesting ,but we got to start somewhere hey! Then on Sunday morning we are going to go with a family shoot, with the wonderful talented Loren, then go back to our place for a little family celebration for Ms Logans crown Birthday , turning 7 on 7 Dec! So be sure to check back in for news on the weekend and lots of photos
I think they can only be good for each other - Logs and Deqlan - I think Deqlan will relate to Logan in a child like way and want to communicate more with some one closer to his age and size. I think Logan will enjjoy taking care of and protecting Deqlan and showing him the ropes on lots of new things....
Deqlan is doing great - we have been in the jacuzzi a lot lately - water does wonders for our surfer boy - he never wants to get out and i find myself floating around and jumping around with him for over an hour most days - great work out for my arms, but more importantly great one on one time with Deqlan - his joy is so obvious in every splash and jump - his eye contact with me is amazing - so the real key to connect with Deqlan is during activities he enjoys and loves - so we will definitely continue with this - he loves watching Nanna say 1, 2, 3 and then jumping together with her - its a great sign that he is now understanding the concept of anticipation - 1, 2, 3 or ready, set, go - by 2 or by the word set - he is laughing and giggling cause he knows whats coming!
Every day is a little different - some days Deqlan like to line things up - this hasnt happened in a while though - some days - he gets so frustrated when he cant tell us what he wants that he will want to bite my arm , or his own knee - this has also improved this week - not one bruise!! The 'stim' at the moment ( an excercise Deqlan chooses to stimulate himself with) is turning , around and around and around - and he never gets dizzy - he also tries to look at things from the corner of this eye while spinning - another red flag on the spectrum - its actually very uncomfortable to do , and hurts our eyes terribly, so we got to think of ways to break this - more importantly - not to let him spin the whole day - we have to limit repetitive behavior - we dont wont things like this to become a 'habit' for him - so when he comes to Dada or Me to hold his arm and twirl him round and round , we do , and then try and change it into a jumping game - but at the moment, he is happiest when spinning around and around.
We have great days of eating and some not so great days - but in general this has improved - still battling with fruit and vege - but at least he is enjoying dried mango and raisins The amount of bread and biscuits he is eating has also decreased - which is a great thing! Deqlan still loves his cheese and juice, especially cream soda! Oh yes, we back into Oreos again, i dont mind sharing one or two with him either!
I continue to do lots and lots of reading and research and trying to get very organised for all the plans i have in store for Deqlan - but before i can do some of them, i have to complete 2 or 3 other things first - which i really want to jump into these holidays - first being the flash cards - dont know if i mentioned them before, we take actual photos of people he sees all the time, of items he uses, food he eats - and the hope is for Deqlan to use the cards to communicate with us and show us what he needs/wants - he already relates to photos of Mark and I and smiles everytime he sees Marks face, so i am so positive this is going to work - we dont want to use this system to replace the words, but to help him communicate while he learns to talk. At the moment Deqlan is saying car and mom - lots of other 'words/sounds' we are still trying to work out, sounds like Kitty could be on its way back - we just got to be patient with him , and i know in my heart , one day he will be talking the hind legs off a donkey!
Deqlan continues to amaze us with the things he does - we know he is so very intelligent - for example when he chooses a dvd to watch , he will put it in the machine and turn it the right way round, so that the letters are facing him , so that you can read whats on the dvd, he understands that letters ave to be a certain direction in order to understand them - he is fascinated with letters and numbers, and he probably understands so much more then what we know!
He loves Dub - dub his best buddy comes everywhere with us and gives him lots of comfort - he likes to sleep holding Dub - when he is playing and realises Dub isnt in the room, he knows exactly where he left him, goes to find him , and brings him to the room where he is playing! The other HUGE favorite is Thomas the Tank Engine - i have read many many sites and books that say kids on the Autism Spectrum love Thomas for some reason - he loves the dvd, and we have about 5 different Thomas trains, which he groups together , especially when watching the dvd - i saw a stunning Thomas ball pit today - going to chat to Mark about getting that for Christmas - he will love Thomas, and the balls , and being in a ball pit, creates deep pressure around Deqlan - which we learnt from Anri , our OT is part of the sensory integration programme.
We await details on when exactly we are going to be starting therapy again , but hopefully very soon in the new year
We are also going to be seeing a doctor from Cape Town , she is coming up on 14 Jan to meet with us, she did a DAN course in the USA and is a certified DAN doctor ( defeat autism now) as well as a medical doctor and homeopath - she will delve into possible biomedical reasons for Deqlan being on the spectrum , such as allergies to wheat or gluten, over active or under active thyroid - so we are looking very forward to her expertise and advise!
Well, let me be off for now got to prepare for Logs arrival! Hope you all have a great weekend, please please keep the prayers coming for our Deqlan, that he remains NED always. I also need to remind you to please keep praying for all our warriors, but especially at this time for Ruan, Declan, Elizabeth, Ilsa, Yolanda, Yolandie, Henco
God Bless, have a wonderful weekend
Lots of love
Mark, Samm, Deqlan
EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE
MARK 29;23
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